Random Thoughts

Hmm... I'm not the best at updating this blog. Not that I don't have things going on with my life but I can't seem to keep up with it very well.

The reason why I'm writing today is that I got some shocking news last night and it's made me think of how short ones life can be. A couple of nights ago, a friend of mine from Jr High/High School died in a tragic hit and run accident back in Indy. She worked at a nursing home and was heading to the store to get something for a resident. She was my age (32) and was married with 2 children. It's hard to believe that Janie is gone. It seems just like yesterday when we were in the 7th grade and cracking jokes (she had a great sarcastic sense of humor) in class. She was a great girl and she'll be terribly missed. I'm sad that I won't be able to attend her memorial but I know a lot of people that are going so I'll be there in spirit. I'm praying for her family and friends.

I wonder what would happen if something like that happened to me. What what my family do? My kids are still small (10, 8, 5 and almost 2) and I don't know how much they would understand since they haven't dealt with death much. I'm not sure how my husband would handle it. He doesn't like to admit it, but I think he would be lost without me!

Well...let's see. I've switched positions at work since the last time I blogged. I'm now in our Service Center area which is basically our in-house agency dept. I've gotten my 2-20 General Lines agent license (I took a 5 week class with super long days!). I'm really proud of that because it's not the easiest test to pass the first time around. :) Eventually, I think I'll get my CIC designation (Certified Insurance Counselor) but I probably won't try to start that for another 6 months or a year. I really do like what I do and I want to learn as much as I can.

The kiddos are getting bigger. My "baby" Ethan will turn 2 on 1/25. It seems just like yesterday I was as big as a house waiting for him to make his grand debut! We are all done having babies so now I'm just watching them grow in their own unique way. I'll be 33 soon but not before my hubby turns 38!! I think that is starting to freak him out a bit. Plus, this year is his 20 year reunion. :)

I pray that things are better this year. There are lots of things that I struggle with because I tend to put the needs of others before my own. While that can be a good thing, it's not when it leaves me confused and unsettled. I'm not good at resolutions because I can never keep them so I haven't committed to any this year. I know what problems I need to work on. I just have to believe that this will be the year that I can be strong enough to resolve them once and for all.

So...I don't take time off from work all that often so I'm excited about the next month or so. I'm taking off a day this week because my girlfriend is in town (woo hoo!) but after she leaves and goes to Houston, I'm not sure when I'll see her again (boo!).

Then I'm thinking of taking a trip to Atlanta with the kiddies during Memorial Day weekend to check out the area. I'm pretty much ready to leave FL (but that's been true for about a decade!) and I have some good friends outside of the ATL who have been talking more about us moving up there lately. My hubby isn't sold on the idea but I'm game for a move. Plus, the housing up there is pretty reasonable and I've been told my friend Shannon is good at fixing up houses! :) So....I'll be checking things out and report back to James what I've found.

Then after the kids are done with school in June, I'll be driving up to Indy to visit my folks and friends. I don't get to go up there more than once a year so I plan on having a good time. I love road trips and while I would like James to share the driving with me, he isn't going this time around. :( So I guess that's like a vacation for him huh? ;)

I've also been trying to plan a trip out West to visit a friend of mine with another girlfriend. I've only been as far as TX so that should nice. We just have to figure out our schedules to see if it will work out. I'm hoping it does!

Oh...my daughters birthday is also coming up. She'll be 8 on the 18th. I can't believe it. My baby girl is growing up so fast. :'(

Lyrics | Muppets - Muppets theme lyrics

So...there are a couple of older underwriters I work with that I have nicknames for. One of them I've called Lightsaber for years. Why, honestly I don't remember other than his name begins with light. Anyhoo..the other one is kinda grouchy so at times I've called him Grouchy Old Man or something along those lines. (I have nicknames for just about everybody at work but that's not important.) :D

Recently, I've gotten into the habit of calling these fellows Statler and Waldorf from the Muppets. I can't get all the credit for that. My friend Craig is just as bad at giving people nicknames as I am so I'll blame him for this. Now every time I think of one of them or see them the Muppets theme runs through my head!

And yes....one of them does have a crazy 'stache just like Waldorf! Here is the song I can't get out of my head today....I thought I would share! :)

So I get a call tonight from my father in law to tell me that my nephew Steve has passed away apparently from an overdose. At this point he isn't really sure of too many details but that's the least of my concern. I just feel terrible for my sister in law Kim. Steve was such a bright guy and had a whole lot going for him. Yes, he had been struggling with some issues lately (relationship/job loss) but that is true for a lot of people. It makes my heart sad to think that whatever problem he had, he didn't think he could resolve it and he would have to take such drastic measures. I've lost a family member before to suicide and so many questions remain from that and now this.

Wow....my brain is still trying to wrap my head around it. My husband is really upset. They were only about 10 years apart in age so he didn't think of him as just a nephew. They were closer than that. All I can do at this point is pray for Kim and that she can be strong in the next couple of days. Her other two boys are going to need her to be there for them because this will be tough on them too.

I think I'll go to bed now....It has been a long day.

There have been a lot of layoffs at Disney (where I worked so long ago) this past month but they really stepped it up this week. It's such a shame to see good people be let go of a place they have worked for years, decades, basically their entire career! I've been praying a lot lately about it because I know how rough the job market is, especially here in Orlando. They aren't done yet (I heard that the culling should end next week) but I hope it's not as many as this week.

On top of that my father-in-law was admitted to the hospital with a blood infection and pneumonia last night. That's bad enough but he also has diabetes, high blood pressure and heart disease that he deals with. Hopefully he will be released by the weekend so he can rest up at home. It's my mother-in-law's birthday today but she had to spend the day at the hospital. That's not my idea of birthday fun. :(

Next week can only be better, right? Crossing my fingers on that one!

Holy smokes! It's been a hot minute since I've written in this thing. Nothing too interesting has gone on though so one one has missed much! :D

Let see....Ethan turned a year old on Jan 25. I can't believe a year went by so fast! He's babbling a lot more and finally has the walking thing down. He's so darn cute! He still needs hair though. My friend Dale calls him the Golden Child. Such a dork! Anyhoo...My hubby James had his birthday last week (a very young looking 37) and my birthday is coming up next week. I can't believe I'm gonna be 32 but after 4 kids and nearly 9 years of marriage....I guess I'll have to!

I've been super busy with work. I tell you that stuff never seems to end. I like what I do but the idea of me moving on to a new job is always in the back of my mind. With the economy the way that it is though...I'm not going to look too seriously yet. If I were single, I probably would be more willing to take a risk and start something new but when you have a family, you can't just think about yourself.

I will say this. There is a older man I work with, we shall call him Wilbur, that drive me INSANE! He apparently has the worst allergies in the world and can't stop snorting and swallowing all day instead of using tissues. Eww!! Not only is it gross to listen to but it just gets really annoying after awhile. Kinda like nails on chalkboard for me. I have to pray for patience on a daily basis but it always feels like I'm short supply of it. It doesn't help that I am always answering this mans questions so the nastiness is always right there.

Hmm...not too much going on I think. I'm sad my friend Haley will be moving out of FL in May to move to TX. I could always go out there to see her but it won't be the same like having her be just a couple of hours away. :( I'm going to try to visit her a couple of times before she goes though so that should be fun.

Okie dokie...I'm going to try to go to bed early tonight since the whole "spring forward" nonsense has screwed up my time clock again. Hopefully it won't be a couple more months before I write again! :)

If you know my husband James, you know how much of a pack rat he can be.  I have tried to convince him over the years to de-clutter his closet or his car (some call that his walk-in closet he has so much stuff in it!) to no avail.  Well, I think I've had all that I can take.  Our poor apt is full of stuff that we don't use and is just taking up space.  One reason it's been getting on my nerves is that my kids are starting to act the same way!  I try to go through my closet once a year and donate what I can and throw out what can't be given.  If I try to do that with the kids stuff they tend to freak out because they don't want to see their stuff go.  I've been threatening to do something drastic and I'm finally going to see that promise through.  It will probably take me all month since there is a lot of things to sort through but hopefully a nice organized space will be the ultimate result.

It sounds kinda weird but the idea of that makes me so happy!  I'm sure I'm not the only one that has this problem.  People tend to collect items and then forget about them.  James has a closet full of rock t-shirts that he hasn't worn in years.  Really...is there a need to keep them?  I can understand if there is a autograph on some of them but they are just regular old t-shirts.  Plus, many of them are too small for him to wear.  Oh...he has like over 600 cd's too that I would love to see go.  He has imported most of the ones he wants to iTunes anyway so why does he need to keep the cd's?  I could go on and on about all the "stuff" he has but that would be a really long post.  :)

I've never been the one to keep things for a long amount of time and after 10 years, I think James needs to follow that example too.  This will be a excellent chance to teach the kids about what is really needed so they don't become pack rats too! 

I guess the same thing could be said about other unnecessary things in our life.  I tend to hold on to friendships even though they aren't good for me or that I have grown out of.  That is harder for me to let go of but sometimes it has to be done.  Just like a shirt that doesn't fit or a cd that I don't listen to anymore, there is no point in holding on to something that I don't need right?  I'll answer that and say yes!  A new year, a cleaner house and letting go of stress that I shouldn't have anyway?  Sounds awesome to me!

What a year it has been.  We had a new baby in January and it just seems like the year sped by so fast after that.  Work was hectic with a lot of people moving on or being let go but we still needed to get the same amount of work done.  :(  My other children are getting older but it's still hard not to look at them like they are babies.  My oldest son turned 9 in November and my daughter is 7 (going on 17) and my other son is 4 so he can go to school next year!  It's amazing to think in a couple of years Lucas will be in middle school and Maria won't be far behind.  Kinda makes me feel old but I guess in a good way. 

I really hope that next year will be a great year.  I'm not one to make resolutions because I know myself and I can't stick to them but I'm gonna try anyway next year.  I want to be more patient because that is something I have a problem with.  I need to stop procrastinating about everything!  I do it with work, housework, just about everything really.  I want to be better about keeping up with friends and not just calling or emailing a couple of times a year.  That isn't always easy to do when you have as many small children as I do, but I want to work on it.

Most of all, I want to work on spending quality time with my family.  I mean, I'm with them all the time but sometimes just being there doesn't cut it.  Life is hard and trying to balance a home life with a job is frustrating.

If I don't write again before Christmas, I hope that everyone has a great one!  My folks will be here in a week and it will be so nice to spend time with them.  Que Dios te bendiga!  (God Bless you for the non Spanish speakers!) 

So...I've been listening to this soundtrack over and over again since I got it on Tuesday and I have to say I'm pretty happy with it. I'm normally not a soundtrack person but there were a couple of artists that I'm a fan of like Paramore and Linkin Park so I figured I would try it out.

Honestly I think I like every song on this album but I do have my favorites. Decode by Paramore and Full Moon by The Black Ghosts are awesome! I've liked Paramore for a long time now and Haley really has the chops to belt out those lyrics. Its a little Gothy (is that a word?) sounding but still pretty cool. Full Moon has the best bass line in a song I've heard in a long time. The album starts out great with Supermassive Black Hole by Muse. It's really catchy and I love to listen to it loud while I driving. :)

Rob Pattinson (Edward the Vampire ;) has a really unique voice and it sounds so haunting with just the guitar and the lyrics. I was kinda surprised since I didn't know he was a singer too. The Iron & Wine song and the instrumental called Bella's Lullaby ended the album on a slow note. I just hope that they make all songs fit with the scenes! I hate it when you are wondering "Why did they put that there?".

I have yet to read one book from the Twilight series. I just bought the first book the other day but it seems like a good storyline. If I believe my friend Haley, I will love all of them but I guess I'll see when I actually get around to reading it huh? ;)


Track Listing
1. Muse—"Supermassive Black Hole"
2. Paramore—"Decode"
3. The Black Ghosts—"Full Moon"
4. Linkin Park—"Leave Out All The Rest"
5. Mute Math—"Spotlight (Twilight Mix)"
6. Perry Farrell—"Go All The Way (Into The Twilight)"
7. Collective Soul—"Tremble For My Beloved"
8. Paramore—"I Caught Myself"
9. Blue Foundation—"Eyes On Fire"
10. Rob Pattinson—"Never Think"
11. Iron & Wine—"Flightless Bird, American Mouth"
12. Carter Burwell—"Bella's Lullaby"


I thought I would post the Decode video too....:)

Wow. I'm not sure what else to say after watching this video. How can anyone refuse to give care to a living breathing baby? How can a DOCTOR strangle a baby that had been born alive? How can Obama stand behind his decision not to give care to these precious infants? I'm kinda sick to my stomach right now. I'm sorry, I could care less about the health of the mother once that baby has parted with her body. If there is even a slim change that baby could be saved after an attempted abortion that should take precedent over anything else. May God forgive these men and women who participate in this. I thought that was part of the Hippocratic Oath all doctors have to profess is "Do No Harm". Just because a fetus (or infant once its outside of his mothers body) can't tell anyone "this hurts or it burns" that doesn't mean it can't feel just like you and me. Babies can hear and feel touch inside the womb, ask anyone that been pregnant before.

I'll admit it. Up until recently I've been a wimp as far as looking at pictures or watching videos like this because I was too afraid of what I would see. Well, it confirmed all of the horrible ideas I had running through my mind. I've been incredibly blessed to have my children. I don't understand why these women don't feel the same way about someone that is part of them. Even if there are horrible circumstances behind the pregnancy, that isn't the child's fault. There are so many women who would love to be able to carry a child of their own but can't and to see this....it just makes me wonder why these partial birth/late term abortions are still being allowed.

I would like to think that I don't have this problem but I know I'm guilty of it.  As I sit hear listening to my favorite Nickel Creek cd, I'm reminded of it.  A couple of years ago my husband wanted to give me a surprise because he knew I really liked them.  He does too but not as much as me.  Anyway, he camped out at House of Blues until their show was over so he could get one of their cd's signed for me.  I remember when he gave it to me he was so excited and I know I thanked him but looking back now, maybe I didn't appreciate it as much as I should have.  He wasted a couple of hours just hanging out (he didn't get tickets in time) until he got a chance to get their autograph.  Actually he did that another time as well with Norah Jones.  He is a little more into the whole autograph thing than me.  He'll put them in shadow boxes with the cd booklet and anything he has like a ticket stub or something that he's bought from the group.  I'm getting off the subject right?  Right.

So....I guess I'm posting this as a way to remind myself that sometimes thanking someone for something they have done for you isn't enough.  You should truly appreciate their actions and hopefully that will across to that person.  As my friends like to say, Monica you're not cold but....you aren't emotional or touchy feely either.  Well maybe not but that doesn't mean that I can't try and change my ways at the ripe old age of 31!  :)

Well....its not like we are going to go out and live it up today.  Times are rough and having 4 young children, its usually not easy to find a babysitter!  :)  I just want to reflect on the time we've spent together which is 10 years total.  10 years.  That is amazing to me!  If you asked me that when we were first dating if this is where I saw myself I would have said you were nuts!  Sure James was cute and all but I didn't know if we had what it took to stay together this long.  Sometimes I still don't but that is more of a idea in the back of my head when I am angry or annoyed at something more than anything.  I can't imagine my life without him now.  It has taken me a long time to admit this to myself but I truly and deeply love that man.  Why is that hard for me?  I'm too independent for my own good and that has always been a sore spot for my husband.  So much so that after all this time I still haven't changed my last name!  I just never thought that Monica Mills rolled off the tongue well but I think that I will change it within the next year or so.  I guess Monica Gamez-Mills wouldn't be too bad.  ;)

Marriage has changed me that's for sure.  It might not be obvious to anyone that has met me since I've been married but if you ask any of my old friends that knew me from before, I'm sure that they can agree.  I've always like to get my way but I'm much more open to compromise now.  That's what a good marriage is all about I think.  You can't be so intertwined that you can't tell one person from the other but you can't be so independent that bending a little isn't a option for you.  How boring would it be to with someone exactly like yourself 24/7?  On the other hand, who wants to fight and argue all the time?  Neither can be very fun. 

So I am going to take today to give thanks for all of the blessings I've had in my life so far, mainly finding a good man to share my life with and raise children together.  I've also made a pledge to myself to tell him more often that I love him since I've haven't always been good at that in the past.  Is my life perfect?  Far from it but my imperfect life will do me just fine! 

This is always the best time for me (I hate hot weather & crowds!) to visit the park.  That's what most people that have ever worked at Disney call any of the theme parks.  The particular park I visited last evening/night was Epcot and it was fun because I got to see some friends from out of town and also do the Food & Wine festival.  I usually try to go a couple of times while its going on so I'll probably be back soon.

So it was kinda funny to see my friends Sean and Haley, who don't have kids of their own, try to entertain mine until James could come and get them.  My children are very hyper and it was all they could do to help me keep track of them.  It was really busy last night (but the weather was beautiful!) so I was glad they could help me out.  James had to work but wanted me to enjoy some time with Haley since I only get to see her a couple times a year so he came when he was finished with his shift.

There were some interesting moments before he got there though....I was explaining to Haley that normally James would take off the night she's in town but he couldn't because of his "procedure" that was done on Monday and he had already taken his days off.  Then there goes my 8 year old blasting out "Oh you mean dad's vasectomy?".  I think we all about died right there!  It's not a secret or anything and if anyone knows Lucas you know that he is forever asking questions so we told him the truth of what happened.  I just didn't expect him to yell it out at a busy theme park!  James got a kick out of that when I told him about it.  :)

The food was tasty and so were the drinks we had.  I honestly don't like mojitos very much but the one I had in Puerto Rico was so good!  When I go back there, I will need to remember to hit that booth again.  Yep....that is on my list.

For those of you who haven't been to F&W, it's an event they have for about 6 weeks (it may be more this year) where the different lands in the World Showcase show off their country's delicacies along with a wine or alcoholic drink that best represent that culture.  They also have booths for countries that aren't normally there during the rest of the year like Poland, Greece, Spain or Ireland.  They have also been showcasing different states more recently.  This year it's Louisiana and let me tell the you, the crawfish etouffee was awesome!  :)

So I think I will go back on Tuesday and this time share it with James.  He is a foodie like I am and we always have fun trying new things.  Mmm...I can't wait to get some more chocolate creme brulee.  It's so creamy and good and you can't beat the bad attitude from the French IP kids when they hand you the plate.  Haha!  They can't help, its part of who they are. 

So my husband and I have have been talking a lot about the hot mess that has been going on in Orlando related to the whole Casey/Calyee Anthony case.

I'm glad she's been arrested!  I hope she stays in jail for the rest of her life.  If she doesn't know exactly what happened  to her daughter, she has a pretty good idea.  I also think that the grandmother knows something but doesn't want to admit that her daughter would be so callous and cold. 

I don't understand people.  Really I don't.  I mean, I have kids of my own and I don't understand how this chick could go over a month without knowing where in the hell her kid is!  And if the grandmother is anything like my mom (who lives out of state) she is calling everyday to see what is going on if she hasn't seen her grandchild.

What makes this woman think its okay to lead people on for months as evidence has been building up and stick to that lame ass story that some Hispanic woman took her and that's the last she has head of her girl?  Just about everything out of that woman's mouth has been a lie.  What's really sad is that she seems to do it so easily like she is really used to it. 

Well, that's my rant on this issue.  We will see how it plays out here in O-Town!

So I thought I would post this for some weird reason.  :)  Has anyone tried any of the new breakfast food at 'Bucks yet?  I haven't tried everything yet but I will say that the Berry Stella is delicious!  Its kinda like a soft granola bar but its not chewy.  It is so tasty I've gotten several this week alone.  I think I will try the oatmeal next since that's something I like to eat anyway and I'm curious to see what their version tastes like.

Starbucks Adds 'Healthy' Breakfast Items - WalletPop

 

PS: This is completely unrelated but tonight is the Colts first game of the season!  I can't wait to see how the team has pulled together after some changes in the off season.  Heck, I'm just excited that the football season is here period.  Go Colts!

Lately I've been thinking that I should get a new job.  Not that I don't like the one I have or anything.  My job right now is pretty good actually.  I'm in "the zone" so to speak as far as my comfort level in what I do.  It's just getting to be to be a burden trying to balance my home life and work life.  I'll try to explain what I mean.

First off....I drive quite a bit to my job.  Its about 27 miles each way and driving on I-4 in Orlando pretty much blows.  It has gotten a little bit better now that some of the projects downtown are finishing up but there are still a ton of people on the road everyday.  I'm still nursing my youngest so I need to get up early enough to feed him, take a shower and get ready and then head out.  Oh....something I didn't mention.  I have to leave work by 3 each day to meet my hubby at his job since he starts at 4.  While its nice to be able to have a job where they can accommodate my hours it also means I need to wake up at 4:30 every morning to make sure I have enough time to do what I need to do before I leave at 6.  :(  We have been able to work from home on and off for the past 6 months or so but even that can have its downside.  My baby knows I'm home so he wants me to pay attention to him.  That can make it very hard to work and stay focused on what it is I'm doing. 

I need to find something that is closer to where I live.  This idea has been rolling around in my head for a long time so I think its time I brushed off and updated my resume and get myself out there.  I don't make bad money but I hope I could find something that pays more than what I make now.  But I also have to be realistic.  Time are rough and this economy isn't that hot, especially down here.  So even if I start looking soon, I might not be able to find something that would be a good fit for me until after the new year anyway.

I don't know....that's just kind of where I am right now.  I also need to find a way to get more time in with my family.  My girlfriend and I were talking about this subject the other day.  Does more money really matter if you are lacking quality time with your family?  I don't think it is.  There are plenty of things I need to work on and that should probably be a main focus for me and us as a family.  I don't want to tell my kids all the time that I can't do something because I'm working or I'm tired and grumpy because I haven't had enough sleep.

Hmm....I have a lot to think about over the weekend, that's for sure!  :)

James is on vacation this weekend with his folks visiting family in Illinois and Wisconsin.  We haven't been able to visit his family as much as we would like, even when we were closer and lived in Indy so he likes to go when he can.  I think he really went to see how his Grandma is doing.  The last time I saw her was around Christmastime and her health had declined sharply.  God love her, she has been through a lot in her life.  She has outlived 2 husbands and more recently has battled breast cancer.  She also has other health issue like dementia and breathing problems which have become more pronounced in the last year or so.  She is a Florida snowbird and usually stays with James' Aunt Sue during the warmer months in Wisconsin and then comes back to Florida around Labor Day and splits her time between my in-laws and James' other aunt outside of Tampa.  James saw her today and he's pretty sure that she won't be coming back down this year and he isn't sure that she will be with us after the new year. 

I feel so bad for him because he is so attached to his family.  Or his immediate family I should say.  When his Uncle George passed away 4 years ago, he was devastated.  He still doesn't like to talk about it.  He went to the cemetery today visit his gravestone and that is when he said that he doesn't think she'll be here very much longer.  He went to visit her in the nursing home she is in and was very bothered by it.  I guess at this point, its too hard to deal with her care so that is the decision the sisters made.  I wish I could be with him up there but it just wasn't possible with the kids going back to school this week.

So I told him that all we can do is pray for her and her health and that she doesn't suffer while she is here on earth.  He said that she has gotten so frail in the past several months, he could probably pick her up with one arm.  He told me he doesn't want to take any pictures of her like that but I told him that he should to have them.

While its a sad situation, I can only hope that what ever pain and discomfort she is feeling is brief and fleeting.  She is a woman of faith so I'm sure she will be in a better place when her time comes.

I am so excited that the football season is only a month away.  Pretty soon I'll be able to watch the pre-season games and that will help get me back into the swing of things for the the fall.  Or what we have of the fall down in Florida.

Being from Indy, I am of course a huge Colts fan.  I'm a little worried about the surgery that Peyton recently had on his knee but if he has to miss some games while he is recovering, I'm sure we'll be okay.  While winning a lot of games is nice, its being able to go to the Big Dance which concerns me more.

I'm a little sad by what is happening in Green Bay with Favre.  I always liked him and was sad to see him go when he retired but he played for a long time so I thought that was probably his best course of action.  Now with all of this drama that's going on, I wonder if he should have kept quiet about retiring until he was for sure ready to hang up the cleats.  I'm not sure how I would feel about him playing for another team.  And and I'm sure the Packer fans would freak out if he did decide to do that.  I think his best bet is to take the deal the Packers are offering him of being paid NOT to play so he'll always be remembered as a Packer.

Oh...I also wonder how Eli Manning will do this year after ending his season on such a high.  Obviously it proves to the Giants fans that you can have a crappy start to the season but still end up with the Lombardi trophy.  I'll be keeping my eye on them!  :)

I don't think I can say this enough.  I'm glad the football season is starting soon!  Yeah!

So the past couple of weeks have been filled with uncertainty about who is staying and who might be going where I work.  I highly doubt anyone will be fired but I'm sure they are looking to push people into different departments.  We've recently had a new type of program roll out at work that is helping to automate our jobs.  Good as far as saving money goes.  Bad as far as job security goes.  :(

I've been speaking to one of my good friends about this for the past couple of weeks.  His job is in the air too so we talk about it whenever we hear something.  As much as I like my job, I'm not married to the idea of doing the same thing forever.  I wouldn't mind moving into a different department but I have a pretty narrow window of when I can work full time.  My husband works around 4 in the afternoon so I would need to find something where I could leave at 3 like I'm currently doing.  Worse case scenario, I think we would be okay if stopped working there and found a part time gig closer to my neighborhood.  Currently I drive about 60 miles a day to commute to my job.  Ouch!  That sucked even when gas prices  weren't as high as they are today.  I could live without that hot mess everyday.  If anyone has lived in Orlando and has had to use I-4 to get around, I know you can feel my pain!

My husband and I were also talking about it today.  He said that he might look to get a second job and just have me stay at home.  I've never been a stay at home mom before but I'm sure that I could adjust to it.  He makes a bulk of the income now anyway and also carries our health insurance so that makes the most sense.

I don't know....I don't want to think about it too much but I have to be realistic about it and weigh all of the options.  We should be hearing more about it in the next couple of weeks so I guess I'll have an idea soon. 

Ay Dios mio!  Now back to dealing with my slightly crazy children.  :)